It's Not You, It's Me

You’ve finally found what you were looking for! Over time, however, the silences, the routine, the arguments and the tiredness begin to take their toll until one day one of you announces the beginning of the end: “We need to talk.”

It was a chronicle of a break-up foretold and now begins the difficult period in which you’ll be trapped in an emotional rollercoaster: first everything reminds you of him and you miss him terribly, then, a little reluctantly, you start to get out there again and find that it isn’t so bad; maybe you have one or two relapses and send a few inappropriate, late night messages that you regret the next day; with time and patience you manage to take the person with whom you shared your time and your bed off the pedestal you’d put them on and realize that in fact he was a bit of a jerk.